Two schools of thought, and the honest answer is: use structure to decide where, and risk to decide how much.
A stop belongs at the price where your reason for the trade is no longer true — below the swing low you are trading from, under the level you bought, or at a fixed volatility distance (like 1.5× ATR). That is a market answer.
If the structural stop is 8% away and that would mean an uncomfortably small position, the trade is simply a smaller trade. It is not a reason to move the stop closer.
Rule it out with the position size tool before you click buy, and check the total open risk in the risk manager.